Beat/Rape a wife


m10.11 When a husband notices signs of rebelliousness in his wife (nushuz, dis: p42) (O: whether in words, as when she answers him coldly when she used to do so politely, or he asks her to come to bed and she refuses, contrary to her usual habit; or whether in acts, as when he finds her averse to him when she was previously kind and cheerful), he warns her in words (O: without keeping from her or hitting her, for it may be that she has an excuse. The warning could be to tell her, “Fear Allah concerning the rights you owe to me,” or it could be to explain that rebelliousness nullifies his obligation to support her and give her a turn amongst other wives, or it could be to inform her, “Your obeying me [def: (3) below] is religiously obligatory”). If she commits rebelliousness, he keeps from sleeping (O: and having sex) with her without words, and may hit her, but not in a way that injures her, meaning he may not (A: bruise her,) break bones, wound her, or cause blood to flow. (O: It is unlawful to strike another’s face).

He may hit her wether she is rebellious only once or whether more than once, though a weaker opinion holds that he may not hit her unless there is repeated rebelliousness. (N: To clarify this paragraph, we mention the following rulings:

(1) Both man and wife are obliged to treat each other kindly and graciously.

(2) It is not lawful for a wife to leave the house except by the permission of her husband, though she may do so without permission when there is a pressing necessity. Nor may a wife permit anyone to enter her husband’s home unless he agrees, even their unmarriageable kin. Nor may she be alone with a nonfamily-member male, under any circumstances.

(3) It is obligatory for a wife to obey her husband as is customary in allowing him full lawful sexual enjoyment of her person. It is obligatory for the husband to enable her to remain chaste and free of want for sex if he is able. It is not obligatory for the wife to serve her husband (dis: w45.1); if she does so, it is voluntary charity.

(4) If the wife does not fulfill one of the above-mentioned obligations, she is termed “rebellious” (nashiz), and the husband takes the following steps to correct matters:

(a) admonition and advice, by explaining the unlawfulness of rebellion, its harmful effect on married life, and by listening to her viewpoint on the matter;

(b) if admonition is ineffectual, he keeps from her by not sleeping in bed with her, by which both learn the degree to which they need each other;

(c) if keeping from her is ineffectual, it is permissible for him to hit her he believes that hitting her will bring her back to the right path, though if he does not think so, it is not permissible. His hitting her may not be in a way that injures her, and is his last recourse to save the family.

[My addition below is part of the Sira, Mohammed’s biography—The Life of Muhammad, A. Guillaume, and the hadith of Bukhari.

Ishaq969:  He [Mohammed] also told them men had rights over their wives and women had rights over their husbands. The wives were never to commit adultery or act in a sexual manner toward oth- ers. If they did, they were to be put in separate rooms and beaten lightly. If they refrained from what was forbidden, they had the right to food and clothing. Men were to lay injunctions on women lightly for they were prisoners of men and had no control over their per- sons.[Abu Dawud 11, 2142] Mohammed said: A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife.

Bukhari 7,62,132: The Prophet said, “None of you should flog his wife as he fl ogs a slave and then have sexual intercourse with her in the last part of the day.” Most of those in Hell will be women.]

Case :

The imam who forgot to read the sharia manual on beating one’s wife. There should be no bruises, no broken bones, no blood.


– ‘Rape not possible in Islamic marriage,’ said UK Muslim cleric



4 Responses to Beat/Rape a wife

  1. simon says:

    this doesn’t seem any different from the white working class attitude towards women, “if she’s not putting out, get rid of her”, “who let her out of the house?” etc. the courts are full of cases of domestic violence against women and it is only recently that rape inside marriage has actually become a crime in england.

    • Nomis says:

      What a twisted and sexist bastard you are. Justifying religiously sanctioned misogyny.

      “only recently that rape inside marriage has actually become a crime in england”? Well, imagine if the English had apologists like you to justify their actions. Would they have bothered outlawing it with everyone defending them? No, so STFU you regressive bastard.

  2. umdatalsalik says:

    Simon, only in Islam and only in countries where the sharia rules, beating a wife is never punishable, provided some requirements are met: do not leave bruises.

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